Blaise Pascal said that now that the heart has reasons which reason knows. How many can do crazy things for love! But at least if it is reciprocated, these follies have a meaning.
bad thing, and here the central issue today, is when one is ... unrequited.
Because while times change ... love is not going to be stuck, do you? Love Is mutant and adapts to new realities Social?
already in a previous post I noted that we are not accustomed to the feelings to be shaping up to simmer, but the question is "We are looking for feelings, or as I once said A. We are eager to consume relationships?
No, love .... love is the victim of the crime of genocide sentimental society is consummated by the day.
want something intangible, that often does not exist, or if, and is called ego. That ego which makes us catch the people to satisfy the desire to alleviate the insecurities of our own emotional complexes.
Yesterday, I was having dinner with a friend who had a history with a guy who, apparently, is among those that are the order of the day, relationships are you looking for then ... disappear. And is not the first time I have something like that (and this goes for boys as for girls, this facility is innate in most human beings without distinction.)
and whoever else who least can relate to, we all happened, surely, mutatis mutandis, all we have rejected someone. But do not think the problem can focus on the rejection, because nothing happens, maybe in that moment, you feel bad, you feel hurt, but ... exceeded.
The problem is not you say no ... The bad thing is the uncertainty that has you on hold, hoping to recreate something that quite possibly never come, and if it comes, the price honestly do not think it worthwhile.
But creating those situations in which predominates over the gray scale that a black or white, is, in my view, the characteristic of insecure people, for two reasons, a person fully satisfied with herself does not do to others what you do not want, and in other matters, a person who is absolutely sure of what you want, or else he does not want in your life, knows to dot the i's and do not leave doors open for use in the future ... you'd rather.
There's a part in the song I chose to better illustrate the concept of ambiguity that says
"You Came upon me to Hypnic like a jerk, when i was just about it and when to Settled counts you recoil whit a cryptic work and leave a love belittled "
At this point ... say that when you meet someone you feel attracted and that this attraction comes in a Imperial , so that as you rush to everything, or you may prefer to wait and be cautious because even though the existence of that initial feeling does not are sure the chances of success may be that these feelings come to emerge into something solid, and can ultimately only thing that interests you consummate passion is without any pretensions, all equally legitimate, but ... Putting the record straight!
theme in the subtitles can also be read: "It is common cold, you go" What can be known popularly as we say goodbye to the French.
And why? Simply because we no longer care about the feelings of others, and we look forward to even get a shell in order to assume the possible or hypothetical attacks that may make us to reject someone, and silence is better than having to explain (in this case, this would also lead to another broader input, poor excuses, do not know what is best, a clumsy excuse or escape without more).
Still, despite the majority of society are moving to make it, and that is none other than experimentation with people like guinea pigs .. I truly believe that there is hope.
Perhaps because I had the great good fortune to have known love, truth, and even if things went well and everything has its end, I think what matters is the maturity with which assume changes and power, yet retain fond memories of that relationship, a bad bounce and not let a bad taste that has been a healthy, full and bilateral between two people who have loved so much.
So things .... if it happened once, it will not happen two? Or there is only one true love? What is clear is that I have no hurry to find out, "slow" as we said a few weeks ago ... so far everything is so hectic that I do not think I could devote the time and effort it deserves ... So maybe another of the conclusions of this post is that before starting anything, you must know if we have the dedication to it deserves.
The trouble with these things is coming from unexpected, unexpectedly .... bang! So schedules are of little value ...
Finally, for those who feel the need to disappear rather than the courage to make known positions ... is dedicated to the track, the letter is not wasted,
;-) Health and love to all!
Pd .- This entry has a special dedication to my great friend Chica-Chic because the years pass, but our delusions will always walk a barrel! And sleepless nights ....
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